Thursday, July 3, 2008

Simplicity

It is not what we leave behind when we die, but it is those who we leave behind that matters. A year ago, Nono left this world. But I guess after 92 years on this earth, he was ready to move on. It was with heavy hearts that we let him go, but he will never be forgotten. The admiration that I have for Nono is unmeasurable. Simplicity of spirit is how I would describe this man. He worked hard for his family, barely, if at all missing a day of work. He didn't live in a mansion, but that is not what makes a home. His love for Nonnie was something that you could not put words to. I remember many conversations with him, after Nonnie died, and it was as though someone stole his heart, lost without her. He was not a man of many words, but his presence was strong. There have been times in the past year (at birthday parties, bbq's, holidays) that things just don't seem right and then I remember.....Nono isn't here. A week before he died, Gianna and I sat on a porch swing with him, eating licorice, and tracing our hands with pencil and paper. It's the simplicity of the memories with him that will be traced in my heart. Love you Nono!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow. It is sooo sweet of you to write this. The Gregori's are blessed to have you as an in-law.
I gotted a little teary eyed.

Vicki

Anonymous said...

spelled got all ghetto. Sorry

Anonymous said...

Rochelle,
I found your blog through a short but sweet journey. I love to hear that God and you are in such a wonderful place. You are beautiful. It was good to "see you". God bless you,
Tammie
PS I enjoyed reading your blog and seeing what you have been up too. I thank God for you, your family, and your determination. I am so glad that He is a BIG part of your life. Tell Justin I said hello!